30s dating 20s
We don't need to pretend that we are into things like camping, sports, or certain bands or food the way we we may have done in our 20s to try to get a guy to like us (it always come back to bite us in the ass anyways).
We know our stance on politics, religion, and spirituality, and we don't need to hide it or pretend otherwise.
There are some guys we can be totally fine with having as a sex buddy or booty call; we know we won't get attached and that he's not someone we want to develop a relationship with.
But then there's the other type of guy who we could actually see something long-term with.
Of course, there's a huge difference between dating people in their 20s vs.
Many of us in our 30s who are single have had the opportunity for that kind of marriage (or perhaps, even were married), but knew in our hearts that there was so much more.You know that relationships do not make or break your life.We know that relationships are a truly amazing addition to our lives, but they do not our lives.Also, when we were having sex in our 20s, we were constantly worrying if our stomach fat was hanging out, or how our butt looked.By our 30s, we care less about how we look and more about just straight up enjoying it. We believe in past lives, we yell VERY loudly when we get excited about something, we like , going to bed by p.m., and finding the perfect wine (to the point of sometimes being called a "wine snob") and I -- oops I mean, we -- have no need to hide or change those aspects of ourselves.