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My other dog is a sweet-hearted Chihuahua mix who's very polite and doesn't know a stranger.Little Pumpkin warmed up right away to my Chihuahua mix but not to my Jack Russell mix. Because my Chihuahua mix invited Pumpkin to come closer, as opposed to my Jack Russell mix who constantly tried to bruise his way into her space.You must let him create the safe place with you instead of you forcing him to feel safe in a way that will never make him feel comfortable.When he does come toward you, you have to be open to his advances.
Pumpkin growled frequently and was distrusting and distant. One of my dogs is a macho Jack Russell Terrier mix and he's a real bruiser.If you can handle this dynamic where he's in control of the speed of the relationship and you want to further pursue a connection, it's best you stop yourself every time you want to shorten the gap between you both.So, no calling him, touching him to force a connection, seducing him with sexy texts and photos, inviting him to concerts of his favorite band, and so on. You must remain patient and wait for him to call, invite you somewhere, touch you, or ask you questions about yourself.If you're loving an emotionally unavailable man who remains at a distance, isn't emotionally open, and who has admitted distrust in women, it's best you extend an unspoken invitation for him to get to know you and come close, rather than trying to "pull" love out of him like fingers from a Chinese finger cuff.Just like a Chinese finger cuff, his love will resist your advances.