Dating on a budget
They watched a movie, took a sightseeing walk around Chicago, and capped the evening off with a pair of ice cream cones [source: Obama].The entire night couldn't have cost more than , but according to Michelle, "I was sold" [source: Weiner]. Then, when you get the power, then you get the women," says gangster Tony Montana in the 1983 film "Scarface" [source: IMDb.com].A long-time reader requested a post dedicated to my dating life and how it fits (or doesn’t) with NMHD. I’ll be doing future relationships a huge solid by not bringing my burdensome loans into them.) While there is a significant difference in the girls I date, there’s also been a difference in the guy I am when I date.The timing of this request was perfect, as I’ve been meaning to devote some time for reflection on this matter and put pen to paper for the sake of my own mental clarity, but I just haven’t been able to get around to it yet. To get really candid here for a minute, I feel that prior to NMHD I wasn’t as concerned with having a great personality and being a super nice guy.Although Obama can now swoon his lady with the full might of the United States executive branch, all he needed to win her heart was an ice cream cone. The line may be iconic, but it's also woefully wrong. Whether you've got a pocketful of change or exclusive use of the presidential jet, all you really need to know is how to show her a good time.Romeo and Juliet's first date was little more than a few minutes of rhyming couplets on a balcony.Her prompt was just the sort of encouragement I needed to finally git ‘er done. Don’t get me wrong–it’s not like I was a huge jerk–but there was definitely an air of “My house…my toys…great dinner…0 tab we just drank…aren’t you having so much fun?Before NMHD, I was averaging about one or two dinner dates and one or two drink dates a week for a spend of about 0 /week or 0 /month. ” But when I stopped throwing money around and stripped away all of those meaningless distractions and it became just two people walking together in the forest or sitting on a couch in Starbucks sipping on coffee, then stuff started to get real.
Obviously that’s an exaggeration, and I find that explaining my situation usually goes a long way in setting the record straight.Five months after he'd taken office, President Barack Obama took his wife Michelle on the date to end all dates.The First Couple flew into New York City on Air Force One, travelled to a Greenwich Village restaurant by motorcade, and then took in a Broadway play.There are many things you can do while dating on a budget that can give you lasting memories and deepen your love-bond.Here are some inexpensive date ideas to help keep your wallet full while still keeping the passion alive in your relationship.