Does anyone here have experience with this pairing? But yeah, currently no experience with them, but I am in the process of getting to know a certain INTJ lady, and hoping to turn it into something. You might end up seeing it her way, sometimes things don't make sense at first glance until you see it from a new perspective. In terms of achieving, I do alright, but I probably don't live up to my professional potential, but that is by choice. Some of the ones they list for me (I'm INTJ btw) are terrible. She uses her NT powers to great worldly success whereas I tend to be less practical and underachieving. and dude, being an impractical underachiever is unattractive to ANY female. It is because we both work hard at the relationship and follow our three rules:!" "Well Pete I figured it should be the one with the capacity for abstract thought." Two randoms Clarifications!
Dominant Fe with Dominant Ti is just a horrible idea, that is just recipe for constant suppression. The things about INTJ INTP only working if the male is INTJ and the female is INTP, is total bullshit, gender of the personality types is irrelevant.
It is not often that I meet people that I really admire (and are cute! Now, I know INTJ is not on the short list of compatible matches for INTPs (at least for male INTPs). We dated for 8 years before getting married 11 years ago, so we've been together a long time, and we are one of the happiest, most compatible couples I know. Always respect her intellect, and be very, very careful with criticism. (Usually along the lines of exchanging witty insults for 15 minutes straight before one of us runs out. There is a re-match every week.) The times he is pleasant though is great. In terms of achieving, I do alright, but I probably don't live up to my professional potential, but that is by choice. If you are only correcting the logic of her argument she will think you are getting stuck on the details and not seeing the bigger picture.
I'm sure it is that way for a reason, but I'd like to try to push my boundaries and embrace the differences while still having fun. Actually they are a great pairing, INTJs have all of the cognitive functions we don't and they use them in an order that are inspiring to us. It is because we both work hard at the relationship and follow our three rules: 1. But if you feel a good connection with your INTJ, you could be in for a very happy relationship. There is a re-match every week.) The times he is pleasant though is great. She uses her NT powers to great worldly success whereas I tend to be less practical and underachieving. I value other things besides climbing the ladder and making money. Essentially getting stuck on a single Te string of a massive Ni web that it is all meshed into. I think that a lot of the sites that list ideal pairings suck or aren't done by people who know what they are talking about.
Why exactly does it make sense for the functions to be one type ordered one way and another ordered another?
Why does more complex and convoluted with no actual basis in science for the structure stand above the more simple straightforward way of getting there? you're either an N or an S or an F or a T or a J or a P. If you're going to go by functions wouldn't it make more sense to make up many more types to address the fact that not everyone is going to test out in the prescribed fashion to be assigned a type?